Black Males, Pastor’s….and Why Brother’s Don’t Like Church!

Why don’t brother’s go to church? This is something I always meditate about within myself and here are some of my reflections:

Black men go through life as probably the most saddened and disappointed group of men on the face of the planet. They are disappointed because as a group they grow up without a father in the house on a level that is totally disproportionate to the rest of society, leaving them with no pattern to model after in the pursuit of manhood. In addition to that they are more likely to grow up in poverty that is abject in its nature, more likely to attend poor neighborhood public school’s and are more likely to be targeted by the police in an abstract and at times deceitful war on drugs.

The war on drugs is deceitful in the sense that black males use and sell drugs at the same rate as white and hispanic males, but are many more times likely than either group to see jail time. Once in jail they are labeled as felons with little to no right’s when they go back  into mainstream society. They cannot vote, cannot live in public housing, cannot apply for a number of jobs and in many instances cannot get public assistance. The only recourse these men have (at least in their mind) is a life of crime. The prison population has swelled as a result to 2.3 million people (the largest in the world), with well over 40% of that population being black (and many more under correctional control). This is primarily due to this so-called war on drugs, which started as an initiative by President Richard Nixon, then acted on in a legislative sense by President Ronald Reagan and finally executed in policy by President Bill Clinton. So we see a new type of  ”Jim Crow” developing since the Civil Right’s movement, with the center of its philosophy the disenfranchisement and destruction of the black male.

From a historical point of view, once integration (perhaps the error of the Civil Right’s Movement) took place, gone were black businesses, black school’s, black lawyers, doctor’s, dentists, teacher’s, etc., as well as the concept of the professional black male role model for the community. Black selfless Civil Right’s leader’s such as Medgar Evers, Malcolm X and Martin Luther King were murdered. As a result angry militant, and youthfully inexperienced black men formed gangs to retaliate against mainstream society with its norms. This helped in creating the perfect atmosphere for the government to deposit guns and drugs (i.e. crack) in the community. Add a feigned war on drugs, hip hop culture’s glorification of street life and voila…a disenfranchised group of angry and uneducated men that society has turned it’s back on.

At one time the church was a place for leadership and direction for the community, but as soon as church and for that matter black public intellectualism became  lucrative ventures (i.e. the prosperity gospel movement with its honorariums for speaking engagements), it became very hard to differentiate the hustler’s of the street’s from the hustler’s behind the pulpit. Black leadership from the church and public intellectual sphere have basically abandoned the community for money (in the name of helping the community) leaving black men cynical and distrusting of church, education and so-called community leaders. Hustler’s specialize in being able to see another hustler from miles away.  As fashionable as many preacher’s think they are, at the end of the day they come off as pulpit pimps, drawing the ire of black men. Sister’s it doesn’t help when, in the name of religious conversion, you try to convince your men of the genuineness of these charlatans.

Black men want truth, they want to belong to something they can believe in, something they can call family (which is why they are more apt to join gangs, secret societies, Islam & five percenters). They are tired of wandering in the state of disenfranchisement. It’s time for the church to become real and relevant and meet brother’s where they are. It’s time for pastor’s to live up to the calling and selflessly help carry these brother’s to meet their destiny. I want to be the type of pastor to start the trend and save these brother’s and convince them that this Jesus thing is real and not a hustle. Who’s with me?

8 Responses to “Black Males, Pastor’s….and Why Brother’s Don’t Like Church!”

  1. janine (homas Says:

    I agree getting us to admit that a woman developing a whole man is a task, when we accept that we need man to raise a man we have victory over the myth of a strong black woman not needing a strong man to raise a wholesome family. The blame on minority parents has been an escape for society and all the while the break up of our families is the target. Truth is everyone needs a mentor they can relate to especially in the case of Black boys. Even this will meet with opposition let us face the fact that we lack and build our families again, we need our men to be healed.

  2. Too often black men are spoken about rather than called on to build for themselves. I belong to a church where black men flock to join, and it’s not a prosperity gospel church.
    It’s a church with black men who expect accountability from each other, who hold men accountable, including the black men of the street. If the church is about pulpit pimping, then black men ought to be the ones to call it out.

    There’s no way that black men feel that gangs are something to believe in. My church meets brothers where they are, and hold brothers to coming up to a higher place. The church is made up of people who are no better than anyone else. It’s amazing that everyone is always blaming the church by pointing out the pulpit pimps. It’s not a pastor’s job to carry a brother all the way. The brother has to walk part of the way on his own. It’s the pastors job to facilitate this walk by speaking TRUTH to the brothers and helping them to change their mindsets and start learning something more than street life.

    In order to build our communities to a better level, we have to expect brothers to come to the church and fight to make it better, while at the same time listening to the wisdom of the elders. It’s a two way street. In the gangs, there’s nobody carrying anyone anywhere. It’s so tired to say the black church is only about pulpit pimps.

    Too many black people have followed the lead of their enemies and have demonized the black church, the one place where black people have any political or economic power. Too many black thinkers and bloggers don’t think very far, and stop at blaming.

  3. Well written piece. I like the last part about women trying to get their men to trust these charlatans(pulpit pimps). That sounds familiar(Adam and Eve). I believe the too, men are intimidated by the church culture that’s dominated by women(congregationally speaking). Most (black)men don’t know church protocol, christian speak basic bible teaching and the like. So in short, the black church looks like the black home(minus the man). And to be honest, the way feminism has taken over this western post-modern culture, that’s to be expected. It’s hard enough fighting off the devil, the world and the flesh and when you throw in the woman in which you share a bed, something’s got to give. So the attitude becomes(for the black man) WHY BOTHER? In my humble opinion of course……..

  4. This is the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth! Excellent piece. Continue keeping it real

  5. [...] Black leader’s (including preacher’s) have got to do more to turn the tide in how our young men think. They have been duped into a lifestyle and philosophy that is self-destructive, leaving behind bewildered son’s, who are now being made in their image wreaking even worse havoc on our women and communities. It’s a tough road to hoe….but we have to do it if we are going to save this next generation. Take a look at one of my blogs on “Black Males, Pastor’s…and Why Brother’s Don’t Like Church“ [...]

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